Kathleen Currie Chavez could not have been more proud. It was 2011, and the Foote, Mielke, Chavez & O’Neil LLC partner and then-mother of four looked at Ellie, her firstborn, a 20-year-old college graduate from the University of Wisconsin who wanted nothing more than to follow in her mother’s footsteps. Kathleen also looked at her husband, Gabriel. She met him on a Carnival Tropicale cruise when she was 18 and he was 22. Their first child was born less than a year after they met. Kathleen focused …