October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. The Ray Rice scandal, which has permeated the media for weeks, reminds us that domestic violence occurs at all economic and social levels. An elevator video captured the violence of Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice toward his then-fiancee Janay Palmer. However, most domestic violence situations are not caught on tape and flashed in the court of public opinion. Without the video of Rice, would anyone have believed that he physically assaulted Palmer to the …