Where a party seeks to reopen proofs and has a valid cause, the trial court must give cogent reasons for denying the motion or it may be found to be an abuse of discretion.The 1st District Appellate Court affirmed in part, reversed in part and remanded a decision from Cook County Circuit Judge Patrick T. Murphy.Sharif and Manal Aref were married in the Palestinian territories in 2001. They now live in the United States, along with their three children. Manal and the children live in Chicago, and Sharif lives in New York in …