Update: Nejla Kassandra Lane was originally misspelled as "Kejla" in the third from last paragraph. A correction has been made.A judge has declined to step aside from a civil case brought by a man who alleges his ex-wife violated the federal Wiretap Act by hacking into his e-mail account.In a written opinion last week, U.S. District Judge Thomas M. Durkin also held there is no reason for U.S. Magistrate Judge Sheila M. Finnegan to recuse herself from the lawsuit filed by Barry Jay Epstein.A judge’s rulings …