It’s a new year. So, as the saying goes, it’s a new you. Right? Either way, if a career move involving an in-house legal job is something you’ve plotted out for 2014, Sonya Olds Som — a managing director in legal recruiter Major, Lindsey & Africa’s in-house counsel practice group — has some advice. No. 1: If you’re just starting to reach out to old friends and colleagues …