Frustrations abound in life and law.The train is either agonizingly delayed, at the expense of my monthly meeting — obsessively gaveled to order on time — or leaves with infuriating promptness when I am held up, forcing me to acknowledge I can no longer cover the five-minute dash to the station in less than seven minutes.For the first time in the three plus-year history of the grueling contract dispute nearing trial, the parties are in agreement, yet the judge still rejects our stipulation (“The trial …