A Cook County jury awarded $9 million to a woman who was allegedly physically abused and harassed by a man with whom she was in a relationship.The verdict, which included $8 million in punitive damages, was reached Tuesday after a one-day trial before Circuit Judge James M. Varga, despite the defendant, Beau Parrillo, and his attorney not being present.A Chicago woman, referred to as Jane Doe in court documents, was “wooed into a relationship” by Parrillo, whose family owns United Automobile Insurance Co …