The real world is messy. Maybe even more of late. Politics, gender, race, religion — everything is vastly more complex and nuanced than when many of us grew up.Particularly, I’m thinking about judgment-making in the real world.In mediation, we’re continually trying to help laypeople understand this fictional legal world we occupy. Our world has a different language and different rules; time runs differently. We have to help clients understand their positions and their legal choices, a job that can seem …