With my two children, I try to impart upon them that credibility is everything. Yet, when I found out over Thanksgiving weekend that my 14-year-old daughter, Lily, “smashed up” the front end of my mother-in-law’s car, the lies started rolling in. Yes, you read that correctly — 14 and no license — no permit.As lawyers, we know that it can take years to gain or establish credibility, but it takes just one case to destroy it. I really believe creditability grows out of two sources: expertise or …