The trouble with lawyers,” according to Charles W. Ainey, the dean of a Pennsylvania bar group in 1963, “is they convince themselves that their clients are right.” U.S. Magistrate Judge Jeffrey Cole understands that sentiment.U.S. Magistrate Judge Jeffrey Cole understands that sentiment.Settlement conferences are the hardest part of his job, he said.“Everybody’s acting in a very adversarial and often acrimonious fashion,” he said. “Each side often thinks they’re absolutely …