Most mediators would poke themselves in the eye six times before having to handle an arbitration. Arbitrations are widely seen as business-killers.Mediations usually end well. The parties make their own decisions and control their fate. Usually, parties leave reasonably satisfied. Sometimes everyone is actually happy. No one made anyone do anything. Everyone made their own choices. It’s not quite like performing a wedding, but it’s usually pretty nice.An arbitration, though, is an imposed decision. No one feels …